It’s been a while since I penned something about my small/big milestone in life or even those simple emotions which is a by-product of my daily existence. I have a lot of stories to write but I don’t know where and how to get the ‘time’ to do it. As a mandatory self-assessment of my year, I don’t want to squander the chances of analyzing all those memories that I create this year and let me share my 20 lessons and 23 reasons of being in the state of gratefulness for 2023.
20 Lessons:
- Don’t chat when mad. I usually end up writing words that I don’t intend to say and hurt someone who reads it because of the high emotion on that particular moment.
- Spend time with my family back home in the Philippines. Despite of busy work schedule, finding time to be with them even for a short period is such a treasure to keep.
- Owning a mistake and asking for forgiveness. I have to admit it no matter what other person will think of me. There’s always room for improvement in every incident that comes along.
- Saying ‘NO’ to situation/person that not align with my schedule/values. I don’t need to please everyone at my own expense.
- Listen to my body. Taking rest is essential. A healthy immune system is my great partner.
- Show up and connect. No more question of being shy or introvert but let my true self fit in the same world where we all belong.
- Help whenever, wherever possible. Whatever I have is also a gift from above so better to share it with others.
- Be kind. There are people who will judge, say or do some things that are not easy to absorb but instead of getting angry, better to give them a profound understanding.
- Power of installment basis. It helps me divide the obligation of payment that doesn’t compromise the budget.
- Choose my own battle. No need to defend myself on every argument.
- Patience when passive income is not same every month. Well, that’s part of business.
- Consistency and discipline that whenever I need to do something this two aspect plays a major role to stay on track.
- Don’t be discourage if you’re the only one who do the work. Let them be inspired by you.
- Pray at all times. This is the best activities that will never run out of style.
- Choose the right words when speaking or writing. Words are so compelling that it might break, distract or encourage others.
- Have end goals in mind when accomplishing given task. Oftentimes, I plan the first stage but forgot the other details that could affect the result in the end.
- Be generous to myself. If I have the capacity to give to others then I don’t need to think twice if the gift is for my personal use. I work hard and I don’t need to feel shy of claiming that I also deserve it.
- Move forward. When things didn’t go as plan then the next action is to step ahead.
- Other people may not have the same heart as mine so no need to expect others to fill the gap in between circumstances.
- Practice the attitude of gratitude. Instead of thinking what is lacking in my life then better to remind myself of the things that is provided to me.
23 Reasons why I am GRATEFUL:
- I belong to a community here in Dubai where we had a chance to gather 3x a week.
- New laptop that I can used at home both for professional and personal purpose.
- Opportunity to serve my chosen ministry.
- Acceptance (hopefully forgiveness) from people whom I unintentionally hurt.
- Surviving the days when our salary got delayed.
- Meeting and getting to know new people.
- Lessons shared during our weekly services.
- Energy to stand up in the metro station in the morning enroute to office.
- A huddle whom I can share all my ups and downs in life.
- Vacation in my home country where I got the chance to bond with my family.
- Good health that allow me to keep on doing and working.
- My safety (along with my housemates) and all our belongings when there’s a fire on our building.
- Time of my friends to meet me when I travelled back home.
- Approved ETA from Canada.
- Got a new flat where my cousins and I lived. No more sharing in CR and kitchen since the flat is all ours.
- Paying bills on time despite of delayed in reimbursement.
- Renewal of my residence visa again.
- I can sleep well anytime that I need.
- Prayer warrior friends who continue to plead the Heaven with our request.
- All the memories I had for the whole 2023.
The list above is quite few compare to the total number of days we had this year. I can continuously write those lessons I learned and even add more reasons to have a grateful heart but what I mentioned above is something that generate a significant layer of impact to my year. Those list is a gear that equip me to remain strong, resilient and humble to pursue the positivity in life.
A big thank you to year 2023…
Excited to create, see, experience and share more stories on Year 2-0-2-4!!!!!